Comedienne Bose Ogunboye aka Lepacious Bose has attempted to offer insights into what it means for men to withhold cash and other gifts from women.

She stated a woman whose partner is not pampering her with money and gift is merely a ‘waka pass’.

Such a woman, according to her. is one ‘who has nothing binding’ her to the man.
She argued men who don’t commit their finances to their partner will sooner than later serve such a woman ‘breakfast’ because they have nothing to lose.

The actress made this submission as an affirmation to Zlatan Ibile’s quote on what a man who genuinely loves a woman ought to do which is constantly crediting her account with money.
“I totally agree but the stingy ones will claim they like independent women and never drop anything! Shior! Mental manipulation! Emotional scam ni!

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“Dem go Dey claim your independence is what makes you so attractive. You sef go Dey die in silence to maintain “strong girl” respect.

“Truth is when they don’t commit their money to you, it’s a mental preparation to walk away, nothing to lose!

“Nothing binds them to you, you are not the main chick, you are not the side chick, you are not even the side chick to the side chick!!!

“As a matter of fact, na the money he suppose give you, him Dey take buy ingredients for the breakfast he will serve you. It’s low key the exit plan!”

Though she agreed spending a fortune on a woman doesn’t guarantee a lasting relationship but insisted when the reverse is the case, it only meant the man never loved nor valued the woman because ‘giving’ is an expression of ‘love.’

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“Does that mean he can’t walk away after spending millions on you?? Of course easily, that’s another scenario and another story; but when you have been together for a while and one naira has never passed to you in cash or in kind?… sister, wake up and smell the coffee ooo!

“PS: I don’t think a woman should live off a man’s pocket…. But giving is an expression of love and any man that does not give either in cash or in gifts is just using you to pass time; all that independent woman BS is a mind game to stop you from asking or be upset about it. Men actually like to pamper women, if he is not pampering you, you be waka pass…,” she added.

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